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Goal isn’t marriage, it is complete acceptance


Published/Last Modified on Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 - 05:12:44 am MST

To the Editor:

I recently read with interest a letter from Rae Jones of Bisbee (Nov. 12), learning many things: (1) gays and lesbians comprise “at least 10 percent” of our population, (2) homosexuals cannot visit their “life partners” in hospitals, (3) they cannot inherit a house built with such a partner, and (4) the writer hopes for a change from the courts.

I would like to know where the round figure of 10 percent came from. I doubt its veracity. And hospitals refusing friends to visit a patient, unless in an isolation ward? It just doesn’t compute. And contract law should cover the conveyance of real estate. Maybe the writer meant tax considerations, I don’t know. As for courts, they do make decisions having the effect of legislation that have neither public support nor a constitutional basis.


Marriage is in enough trouble already in this highly imperfect world. Its religious and legal status should be maintained. Having said that, however, I do endorse domestic partnerships between any two adults, be they mother and son, two sisters, two cousins, two unrelated persons, etc.

As far as I am concerned, they could have all of the legal rights of a traditional married couple. And I do not care and do not want to know about any sexual relationships between the domestic partners. The danger with this proposal, of course, is the dilution of the desirability to legally marry in the first place.

This proposal would probably meet with only grudging approval by the gay activists, however. Their primary goal, as I see it, is complete acceptance by society. But this will happen only with forced gene therapy on the 75 percent of the population that happens to be heterosexual.

Dave Anderson

Sierra Vista

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    Not entirely true wrote on Nov 22, 2008 7:00 AM:

    " Gay people can visit their partners in hospitals, inherit homes, and make medical decisions for their loved one. A durable power of attorney, both names on the home deed, car title, and putting a will and more importantly, a trust, in place insures those rights, with or without a civil union. Marriage does not have to be redefined to guarantee those rights, just proper legal measures. My gay sibling did all of these things with his partner. He also made his wishes clear to his family, and we will respect them. "

    Pauly wrote on Nov 19, 2008 2:38 PM:

    " That is THE REAL PROBLEM. "

    The real problem... wrote on Nov 19, 2008 10:17 AM:

    " If we look at what is going down over in CA everyone across the nation should be worried. The gay/lesbian community there wants the courts to step in and basically overturn what the voters have passed. I don't care which side is right or wrong, but I do take issue with the message this sends. If they are able to convince the courts to do this, it would imply that a citizen's vote doesnt count. Is that really the way to win acceptance? "

    Not really.. wrote on Nov 19, 2008 7:30 AM:

    " You say all of this as if accepting someone is an unusual concept. People with the thoughts you share here only contribute to the problem, which is society's inherent discrimination against anyone that is different. Gene therapy was not required to stop segregation of schools and racism, so why would it be necessary here? "

    MAG wrote on Nov 18, 2008 7:30 AM:

    " I agree completely with your analysis, though people will now label me as a bigot. I am not, I just do not want to see any more watering down of our constitution by judges legislating from the bench. Partnerships will give them the rights they desire without the social engineering they really want and this is the crux of the problem. "

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