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For couple, children’s conditions present daily challenges

By Gentry Braswell
Herald/Review
Published/Last Modified on Sunday, Oct 21, 2007 - 05:11:47 am MST

SIERRA VISTA — Your household may be a challenging thing to manage, but the Wilsons probably have you trumped.

The Wilsons must travel about town in a 12-passenger van. Because of the kids’ varying diagnoses within the spectrum of autism, pull-up and diaper costs are higher than the average family. The Wilson household sees collateral damage to televisions, kitchen appliances, couches and other furniture.

DVDs have been known to end up in the toaster.

The windows of their home must be heavy duty, and the doors lock from both sides.


Lynette Wilson and her five children, from left, Seth, 6; Sean, 8; Matthias, 5; Spencer, 8, and Mara, 12, in the living room of their Sierra Vista home. Each of the children have some degree of autism. (Ed Honda-Herald/Review)


No, this is not the description of a zany college dormitory nor a day care for bobcats.

It’s a faithful Mormon family of seven. And it is admittedly chaotic, said their mother, Lynette.

“We’re basically running a group home here without any pay. What gets us through is our faith,” she said. “Our job and our goal right now is this: Promote as much independence as they can stand. I think it is possible. They could live on their own, and they could hold high-paying jobs.”

Lynette, 34, and Tod Wilson, 35, are the parents of 8-year-old twins Spencer and Sean, 6 1/2-year-old Seth and 5-year-old Matthias, and their sister Mara, 12.

Autism spectrum disorders are a group of developmental disabilities defined by significant impairments in social interaction and communication and the presence of unusual behaviors and interests, as defined by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. It begins before the age of 3 and lasts throughout the person’s life.

Autism spectrum disorders cover a wide range of behaviors and abilities, and like all people, people on the autistic spectrum are very different in how they act and what they can do. That is, no two people on the autistic spectrum have the same symptoms, according to the CDC.

Every day is an challenge for the Wilsons — even the normal daily affairs we may take for granted, such as eating and sleeping.

A new diet

In 2005 the Wilsons attended a conference in Chicago and brought back new ideas about their kids’ diet and how it relates to their autism.

“That’s when the twins finally potty trained. I really think it was the fact they were doped up all the time on the gluten and the casein,” Lynette said. “Anything they were jonesing (craving) after they told us to get rid of because they were probably getting high off of it.”

The Wilson kids would “get high” from things like pizza, apple juice, mozzarella cheese, French fries and chicken nuggets because of the kind of carbohydrates in them.

The family knew a gluten-free/casein-free diet is typically recommended and had tried it, but GFCF foods are more expensive and often taste bad.

Their progress had plateaued on the GFCF diet, but the specific carbohydrate diet the Wilsons learned about in Chicago has brought about new and better results.

A lot of kids with autism have a damaged gastrointestinal tract that is the result of overuse of oral antibiotics, Lynette said. The result is a “long, leaky gut” condition of frequent constipation and diarrhea. A change in diet is preferable to costly and invasive gastrointestinal testing.

The special specific carbohydrate diet the kids are now on comprises all home-cooked meals that exclude certain troublesome ingredients.

“They’re able to eat a broader variety of better foods,” Lynette said.

The results are less brain fog (staring off into space), better communication and decreased autistic and self-stimulative behavior.

“But it was pretty nasty going through it because they were going through withdrawal,” she said. “If you eat something off the diet, you can see the effects immediately, and they last for a long time.”

All four of the Wilson boys are on the specific carbohydrate. The only sweetener they eat is honey, she said, and caution has to be taken about fruit intake because the naturally occurring sugars can get the kids “high” also. The Wilson boys do not eat grains.

She recommended a book called “Breaking the Vicious Cycle” to learn about specific carbohydrate.

The twins and a ‘paradigm shift’

“When they were babies, they grunted at each other from across the nursery, until they put them in the same bassinet,” Lynette said.

Twins Spencer and Sean have experienced what their mother calls a “paradigm shift” following a summer camp this year.

After the 2005 success from a dietary perspective, another giant step is under way that began when the whole family attended Kris’ Camp in Flagstaff in July.

Kris’ Camp is a branch of therapy-intensive and respite camp for children with disabilities and their families.

Lynette said the controversial “facilitated communication” therapy the kids participated in at the camp had hopeful and interesting results. Kris’ Camp takes on a perspective that autism is a “psycho-motor-regulation disorder,” involving a “dyskinesia” between cognitive function, sensory input and output, and muscle function, she said.

The facilitated-communication methods at Kris’ Camp involved the boys expressing their thoughts via typing, and she showed the scrap book she kept that documented the family’s trip to Flagstaff last summer.

At the camp, the counselors didn’t tell the kids what to type. The counselors just held the kids’ arms and let them type out responses.

Spencer typed “yellow, happy, sun” regarding his favorite color, and at day two of the camp Sean typed, “It’s hard not to run as my body just goes.”

Spencer, who has been having trouble at school this year, typed “school makes me sad. Mom gets mad. They just don’t understand.”

Lynette said that punctuates the conflict with the school’s program that all four of her boys are enrolled in. She said the program director does not agree with the Wilson family about the degree of usefulness of sensory-integration therapy nor facilitative communication. The dietary intervention applied by the Wilsons is not strictly enough enforced during the school day either, she believes, because access to things like doughnuts is sometimes too easy for her four boys.

Spencer complains he is misunderstood at his day-to-day school program.

Such misunderstanding is common for laypeople or those who lack experience with autism, his mother said.

Autism can be misinterpreted as a hyperactive disorder — though that is not too far a cry from the autism diagnosis, Lynette said.

“It’s almost like obsessive compulsive disorder, but like on steroids,” she said.

“I love guitar and musik” and “tye dye feels cool to touch” were phrases typed out by Matthias during facilitated communication at Kris’ Camp, Lynette said, which is indicative of the vibrant function inside an autistic kid’s mind. To talk about the kids right in front of them like they are “not in the room or retarded” upsets Lynette because she knows they hear and understand that conversation.

“And with camping, the fact is they’re literally building new neural pathways,” she said.

Kris’ Camp was especially helpful and eye-opening for the twins, if difficult for them because of the parts of the program that resemble physical therapy, she said.

Seth’s autistic condition is not far from a diagnosis of Asperger’s syndrome, that is, he is high-functioning in the scope of an autism diagnosis, Lynette said. The acuity of the Matthias’ condition is somewhere in between his next-oldest brother and the twins.

The boys’ sister Mara, who is the oldest, is on the Asperger’s syndrome part of the spectrum, and is enrolled with the regular student population at a middle school in Sierra Vista and plays an important part in helping at home.

“Sometimes she does feel very isolated,” Lynette said. “She does help a lot, and I don’t thank her often enough.”

District deals with autistic kids

Sierra Vista public schools comprise about 7,000 students, of which about 800 are special-needs students. Of those approximate 800 students, 61 are diagnosed within the autistic spectrum, said Rob Dillon, the district’s director of pupil personnel services.

“But that’s not atypical (of the national trend), I think that’s close to the mark,” he said in terms of distribution throughout grades kindergarten through 12, with the frequency higher in the younger grades.

In recent years, diagnoses of children within the autistic spectrum have increased.

“I think there has been a surge, and it’s matched by the distribution in the school district. And I think that match has been identified nationally,” Dillon said.

An increase in diagnoses within the autistic spectrum is apparent, though notwithstanding the fact that autism seems to be more prolific in recent years, Dillon said.

“Parents of such children are urgent to find the cause. There are some hereditary links, but it seems beyond that,” he said, which not surprisingly echoes the sentiment of the Wilsons.

At the elementary level, there are 29 children diagnosed within the autistic spectrum.

Two elementary schools in the Sierra Vista district that house two classrooms each — Village Meadows and Town and Country — are appropriated to handle the special education classes.

“We have to do that because we don’t have enough teaching resources to distribute them throughout all six elementaries,” Dillon said.

The majority of children who are characterized as having autism are typically identified as needing special-education services to some extent, and of course some require more than others because of the wide range of the autistic spectrum, Dillon said.

So it ends up being a case-by-case policy per student, and Dillon reiterated that integration into the mainstream curriculum, as much as possible, is heavily emphasized.

“The four classrooms that I’ve mentioned (at Village Meadows and Town and Country) predominately serve children with autism,” he said. “But what we want to do is move away from pigeonholing the student into a disability.”

Such “pigeonholing” can be psychologically detrimental to kids with autism and their prognoses, Dillon said. But the autism spectrum does include extremely high maintenance disabilities, he added, and the district’s special needs classrooms predominately serve children with autism.

Considering the population occupying the autistic spectrum in the Sierra Vista public school district, the Wilson kids embody a significant percentage of that population, and Dillon reiterated the importance of working with the families with compassion and empathy.

“For them life is even more complicated and we have to understand about that,” he said. “Sadly in our state, as you probably know, the resources we have for education are meager. Other states have double or triple the financing we have for education.”

The program directors of the district’s special education classrooms collaborate regarding policy and curriculum, and comprise a variety of expertise of specialized psychology, he said.

“Those folks consult with each other, and they also provide training throughout the district with the other teachers, so we have a greater understanding of how to best serve children with that disorder,” Dillon said.

On Thursday, five of the special education classroom teachers left for training in Phoenix that is funded through an autism training grant. This is the second year the district has applied for and received the grant, which allows for the training about half dozen times each year.

Dad to leave, mom lectures

On Dec. 2, Lynette’s husband Tod, who applied for and received an appointment as an Army warrant officer in June, will ship off to Korea for two years.

After discussing the future of the family and his career with his wife, the couple decided this two-year time frame works best, he said.

Tod’s career options will be widened somewhat when he returns. And “when the two years is up, our children are progressing such that they will be able to go with us when I get my next assignment,” he said. “We actually have a lot of support here — family. Because both of us are from Tucson, and we have friends in the community, and while I’m gone my unit will be able to help Lynette as well.”

Because the kids are disabled, the family receives federal Supplemental Security Income. Ironically, since SSI is based off the family’s income, the amount of SSI decreases with Tod’s increase in pay, Lynette said. But the increase in her husband’s income is less than the decrease in SSI.

There are disheartening statistics about family situations peripheral to autistic children, in addition to the financial struggles.

The divorce rate for parents with autistic children is about 90 percent, Lynette said. And the incidence of clinical depression among parents of kids with autism is higher than those of terminal cancer patients.

In coping with their situation, the Wilsons have become de facto medical professionals, “among other things,” Lynette said.

About three years ago, she started the Thunder Mountain Autism Spectrum Disorder Support Group, but the group faded out because of the transient nature of its military-based members in the Sierra Vista area.

Lynette gives presentations throughout Southeastern Arizona to promote autism awareness. The Marana Unified School District has asked her to present, and she is involved with Specialized Training of Military Parents, Army Community Services and Catholic Community Services of Southeastern Arizona.

Lynette also spoke to a class last Wednesday at Wayland Baptist University in Sierra Vista. The class had reached the topic of autism in its semester course work, and the faculty understands that Lynette has hands-on expertise.

“It’s basically an education class, and they’re to the chapter on autism,” she said. “It’s exciting to get in and talk to people who are just starting to get into education.”

The trend in educating kids with autism must move toward inclusion of more progressive tools, such as those the Wilsons found so useful at Kris’ Camp, for goals of achieving functional working roles in society for adults with autism, Lynette said.

“If people are willing to think outside the box,” she added. “There are self-esteem issues because these kids are extremely intelligent and know what’s happening around them.”

The idea is to understand them and validate them as individuals.

“There is a function to every behavior that happens. You cannot take what they do and say personally because it’s not an attack at you, especially if they’re highly functional,” Lynette said.

Seth, for example, is afraid to close his eyes at night because he’s afraid he will disappear.

“They’re very literal. You can’t say I’m pulling your leg,” she said.

Education, medication, more

Medications are expensive, and there is no single pill to be taken for autism. The Wilsons are trying to get by without meds right now. Autistic conditions frequently call for anti-aggression medications, for example, but the non-pharmaceutical methods of mitigating the symptoms such as stimulation and joint compression are what the Wilsons try to stick with.

Lynette mentioned a few of her favorite quotes that express her feelings about their children: “Not being able to speak is not the same as not having anything to say” and “label jars, not people.”

In her presentations, Lynette explains that autism is a neurobiological disorder, one of a group of pervasive development disorders along a spectrum of severity, intensity or acuity.

Lynette teaches that there are three basic characteristics of the disease: Impairment of socialization, impairment of communication, and stereotypical autistic behavior such as flapping of arms. When people with autism do that, it is understood that it is an effort to bridge the symptoms of dyskinesia, she said.

With autistic kids, parents must first “figure it out” and come out of denial about it before goals of independence can be pursued for adulthood. Early intervention can correspond with successfulness of treatment.

When the Wilsons’ oldest son was about 18 months old, there was perhaps a little bit of denial, Lynette said, in spite of the fact he was still not talking.

There is no known cause of autism, but two main theories exist, she said.

One is based on evidence that Thimerosal, which is a mercury-based preservative in vaccines for children, is connected to the increase in autism in recent decades, perhaps in combination with consumption of mercury-contaminated fish by pregnant women.

Incidentally, the vaccination schedule for children was changed from three to 21 immunizations in the late 1980s, she said.

The other school of thought is that autism is linked to genetic auto-immune conditions such as fibromyalgia, asthma, arthritis and diabetes.

Lynette said she imagines the roots of autism to be a combination of the two.

“There is no known cause, so there is no known cure,” she added.

On the Net:

Web sites on autism:

• Talkingaboutcuringautism.org

http://www.nmtsa.org/

http://kriscamp.org/

http://www.talkaboutcuringautism.org/index.htm

http://suedweb.syr.edu/thefci/

• danconference.com

• www.austism.org

HERALD/REVIEW reporter Gentry Braswell can be reached at 515-4680 or by e-mail at gentry.braswell@svherald.com.



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    umm hello wrote on Oct 29, 2007 11:05 AM:

    " In response to Please. Thank you that needed to be said! Well Put! "

    umm hello wrote on Oct 29, 2007 8:46 AM:

    " In response to Please. Thank you that needed to be said! Well Put! "

    Quick Qustion? wrote on Oct 29, 2007 8:44 AM:

    " Personally I learned alot from this artical and even from the comments! I had no idea about fragile X. It seems like autism is every where now thanks to this family for letting us peer into ther lives. "Reality Please" You obviouly do not like this woman as stated in your first comment. But why condem a whole form of communication because you don't like one mother who trys to uses it? You made your point clear move on! "

    Please! wrote on Oct 29, 2007 4:16 AM:

    " Let's be respectful, not judgmental or critical. If my children had autism, I would do anything I could to help them, which is the main point of the article. Everyone, including the school, is doing what they think is right. For you who haven't been in contact, the disabled are a blessing, teaching others much about acceptance, love, patience, joy, perseverence, and gratitude. There is a financial cost, but the stronger must care for the weaker--everyone has value in God's eyes. If only some people would follow suit. Thanks for the article! "

    fragile x carrier wrote on Oct 27, 2007 6:11 PM:

    " Every child who is diagnosed with autism needs to be tested for Fragile X Syndrome, the leading genetic cause of mental impairment in the world, including autism. Our daughter was diagnosed with autism as a toddler, then at age 12, by sheer luck, she tested positive for Fragile X syndrome. Please visit the following websites to learn more about this underdiagnosed condition: www.fragilex.org and fraxa.org. The latter organization is working on a cure and the Doris Buffet fundraising challenge ends Nov. 1st! Check it out! If we find a cure for fragile x, autism will also benefit. "

    Reality Please wrote on Oct 27, 2007 5:16 PM:

    " QuickQuestion- Lynette's managed to alienate SO many, including myself. My child has shared classes with hers for years and it's been detrimental. This article is one sided, like they only talked to her. If they had talked to more teachers and govt employees there would have been a different article. I just want to share some reality with the readers. She abuses the system, and her children aren't better for it. Most people are forced to put up with her and she knows it. I'm using this opportunity to say what many can't. "

    QUICK QUESTION? wrote on Oct 27, 2007 1:37 PM:

    " Reality Please, if you prefer spending time with your son (which is wonderful, I might add) Why are you online daily commenting on this artical about this someone elses? Whats the deal with that?? "

    Just wanted to say wrote on Oct 27, 2007 1:31 PM:

    " The whole Wilson family has truly touched my heart. i am so happy that i have gotten to interact with such smart and beautiful children. Everyone may not agree what the Wilsons are doing, but the kids are in a house full of LOVE and thats what really matters! i applaude these devoted parents! love ya!!!!! "

    umm hello wrote on Oct 27, 2007 1:27 PM:

    " "Reality Please" i am happy that you found something that works so well with your son! Just like i am thrilled for Lynette. Being a mom is draining no matter how many kids you have, but it is also a wonderful blessing. Believe what you want about FC, like i said i use to be a sceptic, till i worked with some one who was highly educated on the topic. i am happy we live where we have freedom of speech. "

    Reality Please! wrote on Oct 27, 2007 7:21 AM:

    " Umm Hello-I don't need to try FC because my autistic son can actually talk to me now. We've worked really hard to get him on the right combination of meds and his speech and spontaneous communication has shot through the roof. I know a lot of people that have worked with the Wilson kids and most say the exact opposite of what you do. Most of the teachers/therapists I know think FC is bunk. I'll keep my stock in things I've seen work firsthand. I'd rather spend time with my son than reading about someone else's. "

    umm Hello!?! wrote on Oct 26, 2007 10:24 AM:

    " "Reality Please" i am guessig you don't have a ton of time, because being a Mom is a busy job, but check out the book Strange Son by Portia Iverson founder of Cure Autism Now. Also read the http://suedweb.syr.edu/thefci/ We all can believe what we want and say what we want we have freedom of speech. Imagine not being able to express that because of autism. FC lets these kids express themselves! "

    umm Hello!?! wrote on Oct 26, 2007 10:19 AM:

    " "Reality Please" have you read any current research on FC??? I will admit i use to be skeptical, because i saw it being falsely use before. But with the right peple, who have been highly educated on the topic (like the WIlsons have) It is true!!!! Like i said before i have facilitated with these brillant children. Why judge till you have tried??? Maybe you should see first hand with your child. Check out the amazing staff at NMTSA. The showed me the truth and now i know so much more about my kids! "

    Reality Please! wrote on Oct 25, 2007 9:29 AM:

    " The FC is snake oil. A "facilitator" sits at a computer with a child on his lap and has the child rest their hands on top of his. Then the facilitator types responses to questions, with the child's "guidance". Why are they willing to believe in this, but not try medications? I have seen first hand (my own child) how drasticly a child's communication improves. It makes them more focused and receptive in school as well. It also helps make them behave better for their teachers and peers. You'd think they'd want that... "

    Reality Please! wrote on Oct 25, 2007 9:13 AM:

    " Why are they on SSI? If he's in the Army they have TriCare. While it isn't perfect and doesn't always cover anything they still have ACCHHS which provides them with FREE supplemental insurance. They shoudln't be coming out of pocket for anything. If they have respite providers (which I know they do) then they are in the DDD/ACCHHS system, so they have no out of pocket expenses. Again, more proof that the Wilson's feel no remorse in abusing the system for their own gains. "

    umm hello wrote on Oct 24, 2007 11:22 PM:

    " Hi i have personally facilitated with these smart and amazing children! if you are in such disbelief about FC maybe you should look at RECENT research Facilitated Communication Institute at the University of Syracuse (as linked at the bottom of the article) http://thefci.syr.edu/ and click on 'Resources at this Site This woman is a wonderful loving mom who is doing a great job. i cannot believe some of the rude comments i have read. YOU CANNOT JUDGE TILL YOU HAVE WALKED A MILE IN HER SHOES!! "

    shaking my head wrote on Oct 24, 2007 1:36 PM:

    " at all the judgemental insults... "

    Miss Amy wrote on Oct 24, 2007 12:37 PM:

    " Sugar has been scientifically proven to NOT cause hyperness. Considering how many are talking about scientific proof I thought I'd throw that in there. How devastating for a family who wants healthy children to find out their children are not. 4 of their children were already born when the diagnosis came in. Considering the age gap, I would say the last pregnancy occurred about the same time as the official diagnosis came in. She is doing what she can with the resources available, no more than any of us would do for a loved one. "

    No more babies wrote on Oct 23, 2007 7:57 PM:

    " Dan wrote, " I personally would rather pass on the "trait" of autism combined with values that the Wilsons have versus the ignorance and so called values from "Why " and "You'd think" that say they should have just stopped having babies. REALLY? What values? Crying about what life has dealt her, and trying to blame others? Hook up with an autisic woman, and you may be able to pass that trait on. "

    Frustrated wrote on Oct 23, 2007 3:56 PM:

    " For those that DON'T understand Facilitated Communication: the children are NOT typing; an adult is "facilitating" the typing by holding their arm as they touch the letters on the keyboard. Not only does scientific research not support the validity of FC, the bulk of the research actually shows that the FACILITATOR is affecting the communicative message. While one can't blame the parents of these children for hanging on to dome degree of hope, we also can't blame the schools for resisting the push to utilize a technique that has been proven to be invalid and misleading. "

    Julie wrote on Oct 23, 2007 3:13 PM:

    " She sounds like the type of person who just wants attention...'poor me, look what I have to go through' blah blah blah--save it because we all have issues and she needs to stay home and deal with hers. All kids need to eat nutritious foods to stay calm and function. Sugar makes any child hyper...I think social services needs to pay her a visit...that picture says it all--those parents are doing those kids and our society a disservice. "

    WHAT?? wrote on Oct 23, 2007 2:19 PM:

    " What was the purpose of this article? The mother states clearly that "they are basically running a group home." Her words not mine. If you are talking about your children, the prides and joys of your life, would you refer to them in such a manner? Why is it the public educational system's job to take care of her kids? Just because you can't do it yourself doesn't mean you should push it off on someone else. This woman and her family are a disaster. "

    Second it wrote on Oct 23, 2007 9:03 AM:

    " Reality Please! You made a good point. "

    Grammydu wrote on Oct 23, 2007 8:08 AM:

    " Mr. Dillon should come out of his fantasy world where he notes that Autism "seems to be more prolific in recent years". Check what the federal CDC has to say in numbers from 1999 to now. Moving from reported cases of 1 in 10,000 to 1 in 152 is not documented information that would seem to have something be prolific, it is a documented epidemic. If, as he states, the state of Arizona is low on funds for education what is being done to alleviate the problem? Please become advocates for these education issues. "

    Reality Please! wrote on Oct 23, 2007 7:18 AM:

    " The writed and editor need to be more thorough. Did they talk candidly to anyone that has to deal with these people? No, if they had they would have learned that the only person who considers her a "super mom" is Lynette herself. Everyone else thinks she's a "super disaster" and a pain in everyone's rear. The kids are a nightmare and are a huge drain to their teacher's time, energy and a huge distraction in the classroom. I say all of this as a parent of a disableld child who knows the Wilsons. "

    Dan wrote on Oct 23, 2007 5:37 AM:

    " I personally would rather pass on the "trait" of autism combined with values that the Wilsons have versus the ignorance and so called values from "Why " and "You'd think" that say they should have just stopped having babies. What next? Should we stop having kids because they might have red hair? Sounds vaguely familiar to me. "

    Para wrote on Oct 23, 2007 5:32 AM:

    " I am a paraprofessional. Having worked with kids who have the varying degrees of autism is a challenge, but a very rewarding one. They are amazing individuals. The Wilsons are to be commended. It can't always be easy (but is it for any of us?) and there is hope every day that these kids will live a "normal" life given the best intervention we can all give them. "

    dear straight talk: wrote on Oct 23, 2007 2:15 AM:

    " Pray save us all, you WILL extricate politics while we lend aid. Common sense is a variable that changes, so the steadfast spirit of scientific method is the KEY here. It is the truth, that one expert must relentlessly fetch any evidence provided from another. " The district must comply with federal law (and just plain common sense) that requires teaching methods be scientifically tested and evidence-based." "

    Paying for this wrote on Oct 22, 2007 10:00 PM:

    " Most of the article mentions the expense of taking care of these kids. The oldest (boys) were diagnosed before at least the youngest was born. If you can't afford to take care of multiple children, then don't have more. Plain and simple. The truth is that WE the TAXPAYERS are paying for these children. I guess now that they are here, we need to take care of them. I am not impressed with this family at all though. "

    Agent Minivann wrote on Oct 22, 2007 9:10 PM:

    " So if I understand facilitated communication correctly, the children are typing to communicate. The school district doesn't see this as viable or supported by evidence? I wonder what Stephen Hawking would say about that. I'm sure he would recommend reading all the references provided, especially those in scientific journals. "

    Hats off wrote on Oct 22, 2007 10:44 AM:

    " Hats off to the many para-professionals, teachers, therapists and staff who work with these kids on a daily basis. They tackle a very difficult job and are often un-appreciated and most definitely underpaid. Choosing to work in special education is a labor of love and compassion, not ego. Anyone who has not worked or volunteered in a special ed classroom can not possibly understand what goes into the day to day routine. New ideas/techniques are great but very hard to implement without cooperation and reinforcement from ALL involved. Possibilities are endless but in reality we do what we can. "

    Paying for them wrote on Oct 22, 2007 10:01 AM:

    " Christina, Having that family on SSI is costing the taxpayers. The more kids, the more SSI. Where in the article does it say the oldest ones were diagnosed, after the younger were born? The mom said there was denial. And who knows how they will "turn out"? "

    Christina Hales wrote on Oct 22, 2007 8:05 AM:

    " First,having a large family was not the main focus of the article nor was it a crime the last time I checked. Second,looking at the ages of the children, the youngest was born before the older were diagnosed. Third, parenting a child with a disability is not a death sentence. It simply alters the challenges you will face as they grow. Finally, I am so impressed and inspired with the Wilson's and the way they are trying to raise their children to contribute to society, regardless of their disability. May all our children turn out as well. "

    srlccbcc wrote on Oct 22, 2007 6:34 AM:

    " In my county if you homeschool your children all the county provides is speech therapy. Even now that mine are in school and need special intervention they are doing all they can to try to get out of it.... "

    Ft. Lewis, WA wrote on Oct 22, 2007 1:05 AM:

    " People are not disposable, attitudes are. More people than we realize are challenged by disability. It is common for a disabled person to have more than one diagnosis. Proper educational and medical diagnosis is crucial for our disabled members of society to become productive members of society. I am grateful that this article brings to light the nuances of disabilty. "

    to You'd Think wrote on Oct 21, 2007 7:47 PM:

    " Apparently you did not comprehend this article. Go back and reread it. "

    Miss Amy wrote on Oct 21, 2007 6:53 PM:

    " Glad to see you are all doing ok. I miss you all tremendously. You are a great mother Lynette. Your children are very lcuky to have you. "

    Impressed wrote on Oct 21, 2007 6:38 PM:

    " to 'Straight Talk': Facilitated communication is most certainly evidence-based and scientifically tested and the reporter of this article even provided a link to educate yourself further - If you are interested in the CURRENT research, visit the Facilitated Communication Institute at the University of Syracuse (as linked at the bottom of the article) http://thefci.syr.edu/ and click on 'Resources at this Site'. I admire the Wilsons for their strength and their unwavering dedication to the belief that their children are competent and smart! "

    Julia wrote on Oct 21, 2007 5:54 PM:

    " Wow, "You'd Think" sure is brazen. I have five children and several have special needs. Yes, they are a challenge and somedays I think they would be better off with me as their teacher. There really is no one that knows a child better than their parent. But, what would homeschooling them accomplish? It might help my child, but what about the children following in their footsteps? I'm proud of Lynette for choosing to educate and empower those who work with her children. She is helping the future and keeping herself sane. "

    You're kidding! wrote on Oct 21, 2007 5:08 PM:

    " You have got to be kidding! I can't believe you call Facilitated Communication "unscientific metnods." It works! Since when do we need science to TELL us when something works? I am a school teacher. I am expected to use whichever method brings the most success in the education of my students with special needs. If FC works as well as it has been proven in this case, then why won't the school district approve it? This is asinine! "

    A parent wrote on Oct 21, 2007 4:48 PM:

    " Thimerosol was taken out of children's vaccines starting in 1996 and all vaccines are thimerosol-free as of 1998. It's been ruled out as a factor for quite a while now. The Wilsons are not only a courageous family, but an inspirational one as well. "

    Why wrote on Oct 21, 2007 4:21 PM:

    " Why do these people keep having more kids? If my first was born with autism, I sure would not have kept breeding, to see if I could have one without it. Just in this family, there are going to be five more individuals, that are going to pass that trait down to their children, and on and on. "

    facilitated communication wrote on Oct 21, 2007 4:18 PM:

    " isn't a teaching method, but a communication method similar to a sign language or foreign language interpretor. I don't understand why it needs to be scienifically proven to be used. "

    quit having babies?! wrote on Oct 21, 2007 3:59 PM:

    " That is certainly an insesnsitive remark!! Having the babies isn't causing the autism.... Homeschooling is a larger commitment than "You'd Think" seems to realize ON TOP of the commitment already required to be SuperMom to these children. Even with home schooling, the state is required to give special needs services that a home schooled kid needs. So, you still have that 11% not quite getting the services desired. I suppose it is just a matter of time for the facilitated communication to be seen as "scientifically proven" and it takes moms like Lynette to push the issue ;-) "

    Wow wrote on Oct 21, 2007 12:31 PM:

    " I commend the family for pulling through. And Gentry, I learned a lot from your article. Good work. "

    Sharon wrote on Oct 21, 2007 11:04 AM:

    " I find it interesting that Dillon has mentioned goals and philosophies regarding the special education programs in Sierra Vista, yet the actual experience doesn't match. Training and implementation are two different things. When is there going to be follow up and enforcement after the training has taken place? The trainees also need to get over their ego to be understanding and compassionate. Lynette is a HUGE blessing for the autistic community! I pray that her presentations inspire those working with autism to let go of ego and embrace love and compassion for our misunderstood children. "

    hats off wrote on Oct 21, 2007 10:21 AM:

    " My hat is off to this mother. What a courageous woman you are. "

    Mom of 4 wrote on Oct 21, 2007 9:21 AM:

    " my son was diagnosed with severe autism when he was 2 1/2 years old. I knew there was a problem a year prior with 3hour nights of sleep, outbursts, compulsive behaviors,etc..I am also military.I began seeking help very early with no support or help.I was told he was(retartd).I used all military and civilian resourses and I thank everyone yes the MILITARY DRS.My son is a straight A Gifted student at Buena he is working played for youth services sports and plays for Buena now.He is 16 still has some autistic behaviors and thats OK. "

    Hopeful wrote on Oct 21, 2007 9:11 AM:

    " Wow. What a story. This disability is devastating in its impact on children and their families. I hope that medical treatments that really work will be found. This seems to be a national disaster. "

    Straight Talk wrote on Oct 21, 2007 8:34 AM:

    " The district must comply with federal law (and just plain common sense) that requires teaching methods be scientifically tested and evidence-based. Facilitated Communication is neither. That is why the "program director does not agree" about the use of facilitated communication. With a bit more work, your reporter could have uncovered the reason for the district's refusal to use this method, and educated himself and the community regarding the use of unscientific methods. "

    You'd Think wrote on Oct 21, 2007 7:32 AM:

    " That they would quit having babies. There sure are a lot of special needs kids, in the school system in this, area, about 11%. If they don't like the way the school system works, why doesn't she home school them? "

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